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Christian – “Overdose Death”

Christian talks about an overdose death not defining who that person was.

Valmy – Music for me and for others

Valmy talks about music she has created around her loss and how it helps her connect with others

Doug – “My Story”

Doug talks about the accident that killed his daughter and his process of grief.

Teresa – Main issues with intellectual disabilities and grief

Teresa shares some of the main issues that people with intellectual disabilities in grief such as communication and size of their circles

Angie – Cumulative grief, cumulative trauma

Angie discusses the challenges of policing and how trauma and grief can accumulate

Jim – Supporting someone in crisis

Jim talks about supporting someone in crisis and how being there for them can help. That may mean answering the phone at 2am, taking them to the doctor’s appointment, and checking tup on them. It’s not easy, but it’s the right thing to do. He was fortunate to have a friend who did this for him, and is still grateful for their support. If you know someone who is struggling, don’t be afraid to step up. It could make all the difference.

Joyce – A favorite memory with music

Joyce tells a story about her son supporting her and the power of music

Jim – Significant incidents

Jim discusses being involved in a significant incident and how it’s normal to feel overwhelmed and ruminate over it. You may even start to drink or use drugs to cope. But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. Many police officers have been through similar experiences. And there are resources available to help you get through this.One of the best things you can do is talk to a trusted friend or colleague. They can offer support and understanding. You can also seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. They can help you to process your experience and develop healthy coping mechanisms. It’s also important to remember that you can’t change the past. But you can learn from it. And you can move on. Don’t let one incident define you. You are a strong and capable person. And you will get through this.

Jean – What grief feels like physically

Jean discusses the physical effects she has experienced in grief

Cheryl and Mike – “Getting help”

Mike and Cheryl talk about their surviving daughter and getting help. They continue to grieve the death their daughter in a car accident.

Claudia – Waterlillies

Claudia talks about how she painted on panels big enough to hug to help her with her grief

Kara – “Just give it time”

Kara discusses time and how grief changes. Kara continues to grieve the death of her partner.