Death of A Loved One

When Death Feels like a Thief

In the heart of my grief, at my frailest, all I could see was what was no more. I grieved all that was stolen from me by death; love, security and even my very self. Had I known the value of having every pocket of who I was, picked bare by grief, I would not have fought so hard to hold onto it all.

Lyss – Support, Family, and Friends

Lyss discusses the long process of her mother dying, miscarriages and support from family and friends

Kara – Uncertainty

Kara discusses how Covid-19 has created uncertainty and impacted grieving.The pandemic changed the way Kara continued to grieve the loss of her partner.

Doug – “Two sides of the story”

Doug talks about perspective and forgiveness. Doug continues to grieve the death of his daughter in a car accident.

Mary S – The value of writing

Mary talks about how much writing has helped inlcuding writing what her partner would have said

Jean – What grief feels like physically

Jean discusses the physical effects she has experienced in grief

Krista – “Range of emotions”

Krista talks about the journey towards acceptance.

Hope – Going back to school

Hope talks about the shift she felt when she went back to school after her father’s death.

Sam – Depression

Sam who lost his father, uncle and cousin talks about depression and being self aware

Mary S – Coping with multiple loss

Mary explains the challenges of dealing with the death of her partner and then her parents

Nicole – Pandemic Leads to Increase in Drug Poisoning

Nicole discusses the increase in drug poisonings during the pandemic due to a number of factors.

Doodles

On the first anniversary, I invited people who would understand – friends who knew Marshal’s love of art, and his creative spirit. They all came.

I had copied several of Marshal’s doodles of incomplete characters and creatures, with some finished for the kids to color. I eagerly watched to see which doodle or drawing each person chose.