Supporting Others

Michele – Covid and virtual support

MIchele discuss support and how COVID has affected our grief in so many waysort

Michele – Talks about being a death doula

Michele explains what death doula’s do. Doula means servant. They support people on many different levels… for instance, emotionally, spiritually and physically

Lyss – Support, Family, and Friends

Lyss discusses the long process of her mother dying, miscarriages and support from family and friends

Betsy – You can’t know until you know

Betsy talks about support and what really helps when one is in grief

Maureen – “Peer vs professional support”

Maureen talks about getting help and what is right for you.

John Martin – Loss and Grief – Get Your Feeling Out

John discusses the importance of getting your feelings out

Valmy – Checking in on someone is good

Valmy explains how helpful it is to check in on someone who is grieving

Alongside

That is also our best, and only role, when supporting a person with a developmental disability to grieve. We must be the one that comes alongside. There is no closer place we can get to. We must be present, be with, perhaps not understanding or comprehending what the person we support is experiencing, but alongside them nonetheless. We must be there, ready to provide whatever we can discover of their unique need in grief.

Maureen – “If someone you know has experienced pregnancy & infant loss”

Maureen explains practical tools to help someone who is grieving.

John – What I have learned

John explains how he has changed since his wife died and now looking back what he would say to his self right after his loss

Shannon – Blessings and sadness

Shannon discusses how just showing up, being present is a powerful way of supporting to someone who has lost. Listen more – talk less.