Death of a Partner

Shannon – Guilt vs Shame

Shannon talks about guilt can be a part of the grieving process but shame has to do with “is there something wrong with me”

Kara – “LIfe Partner”

Kara talks about her partner dying.

Holly – Befriending our mortality workshops

Holly explains how creating can be helpful with grief and how we don’t talk about death

Holly – Every grief is unique

Holly talks about how grief can make you feel like you have lost your soul but that there is something to learn

Holly – Gifts in moments at the end of life

Lynda discusses how to deal with guilt.Holly talks about singing at the end of life

John – Dating again

John talks about being asked by his daughters if he would ever date again

Andrea – Loneliness and support

Andrea talks about how tough it is to be alone and how her friends and family have come through for her

Andrea – Dealing with personal belongings

Andrea discusses dealing with her late husbands personal belongings and the need to purgees

Mary S – The value of writing

Mary talks about how much writing has helped inlcuding writing what her partner would have said

Holly – The symbolic nature of death

Holly discusses doing art, the symbolic nature of urns and the denial of death

John – Lasagna

John talks about the “widower’s meal”… Lasagna, and learning how to cook for his daughters after his wife died

Karyn and Aidan – Our story

Karyn and Aidan – Karyn tells the story leading up to John’s death during the pandemic